I always knew I wanted to get married when I grew up. I thought about it a lot.

Over time, I began to think there must be something wrong with me or I would have found her by now, all the usual baloney that single people tell themselves.

But there was a small part of me that believed that I would find her, and focusing on that helped to silence the negative thoughts.

I’m sure you’ve heard of the idea of a vision board, in which you put photos and quotations and anything else on a board to keep your dreams in front of you. I couldn’t see quite how to do that with the subject of marriage.

So I created a vision post it! I didn’t call it that, but that is what it became. And I put it in a place where I would be sure to see it many times everyday–on my refrigerator, right square at my eye level, when I grabbed the handle to open the door.

I also wrote it in code to keep it private. ODCTMW stands for “one day closer to my wife.” I believed that I would find her, and every passing day that note affirmed that I was getting closer. And it worked! Eventually, I met and married my wonderful wife, Liz, a blessing for which I am daily grateful.

What dream do you have that needs a little help to be kept alive? Try my vision post. Create your code, and use it to help you to achieve your dreams.

Contributed by Hank Frazee, Author of Referral Upgrade and Before We Say “Goodnight”

Check Also

American Flag

Honoring the Symbol That Unites Us All

The United States of America is “flag-waving crazy” like no other country on earth. It …

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *